THANKSGIVING

Thanksgiving has always been one of my favorite Holidays. As a child I remember the hustle and bustle of my parents and of my uncle and aunt in preparation for the day. The feast of turkey and the numerous side dishes were a gluttons delight. Memories of those joyous occasions will remain with me forever. Eventually my siblings and I married and moved out of Southie to the surrounding suburbs. My sister went further into the State of Maine. We all tried to stay in touch but with growing children and our responsibilities as adults- that wasn’t easy.

 However, there was one day when we all returned as a family to our parents’ home and that of course was Thanksgiving. Our parents continued with the preparations of the meal until they no longer do so physically. But that wasn’t a deterrent. The slack was taken up by everyone and we continued the tradition. I recall when the number of us grew so large that we had tables set up from the front of the house to the back. Adults sat in the more formal dining room and the children at extension tables.

Eventually our parents passed and the annual trek to Southie ended.  We started our own traditions with our own grandchildren. The memories of our annual gatherings in Southie at Thanksgiving have always had a special place in my heart and that is why I consider it one of my favorite holidays. 

PINNOCHIO

I remember the first motion picture I ever saw. It was around 1941 when I was at the impressionable age of 6. The movie was Pinocchio. There were 2 movie theaters in Southie at the time, the Broadway on West Broadway and the Strand on East Broadway. The movie was not shown at either theater. To see it you had to go downtown Boston which was an adventure by itself.

It was the golden age of Movie theaters and the lobbies to a 6 year old were a marvel to see. I entered a world previously  unknown to me. The Paramount (which was recently renovated by Emerson College) was where I saw the movie.

Unfortunately at my age I thought what I was about to see was real. The scene where Pinocchio was changing into a donkey was an earth shattering moment and for years I tried to live an exemplary life because I thought that could happen to me. As I said at the beginning I was at impressionable age.

LAMPLIGHTER

Many of you may find it hard to believe but when I lived on West Fifth St. in Southie in the late 1930’s the street was lit by gas lamps. The lamp had a pilot light that remained constantly on. At dusk a lamplighter would take a long pole and adjust the valve to provide full illumination. At day break he would reverse the procedure and adjust the valve to the pilot level.

Today the streets are lit by sodium vapor lamps that are so bright that it is hard to distinguish day from night. Of course from a safety point of view that is exactly what you want. But my memory of a street lit by gas lamps can’t be beat. The lamps were placed at intervals that provided just sufficient lighting overlap. When I stood and looked down my street from Dorchester St. I paint a picture in my mind of a darkened street with just enough illumination to make out the outline of the houses and street.

Like all good paintings they are worthy of saving.

JOE'S SPA EMPLOYMENT

Recently a friend posted a question asking what your first job was as a teenager. My response was “Worked a soda fountain making "frappes" milk shakes and dishing out ice cream sundaes and ice cream cones.” That was over 60 years ago. Since the restaurant was owned by Father and Uncle both families were employed there. The Restaurant was Joe’s Spa on West Broadway.

I worked full time during the summers but only on weekends when I was going to school. Today there are many fine restaurants in Southie and the choices quite varied. For those of you who lived in Southie in the Fifties your choices were limited. The only restaurant of considerable size was Joe’s Spa.

Back then the Blue Laws were in effect. That meant the bars were closed at 1:00 AM on Fridays and 12:00 AM on Saturday. A half hour after they closed all of the bar occupants ended up at Spa. It was the only time the reserve room in the back was open. It was utter chaos. Many nights all of the booths were occupied and there was standing room only. Our kitchen was closed but our sandwich station was open. That was where I ended up working.

Over the years when I mentioned I worked at the Spa people would tell me “that’s where I met my Spouse.” I am sure it was during those post bar meetings when everyone in Southie was gathered. I have fond memories of that time although I was working too hard to appreciate the social activities happening all around me.

BABE RUTH OUR NEIGHBORHOOD

As a youngster growing up on West Fifth Street in Southie I was subjected to a lot of stories about our neighborhood by the older boys. One story in particular stuck with me even as an adult. The story involved Babe Ruth. He supposedly once lived in our neighborhood and that his wife was buried in the cemetery surrounding the St. Augustine Chapel on West Sixth Street. Babe Ruth was the most revered baseball player of his era and because I thought I could play professional baseball, he was a major idol in my young life.

When I retired some 22 years ago I had time on my hands so I thought I would chase down this story. Many books have been written about the Babe, some factual, others were fiction. One book confirmed that his wife was buried in the Chapel cemetery. Had the Author done some serious research he would have learned that it was not true. Here are the facts.

Babe Ruth did live in our neighborhood. When he played for the Red Sox he fell in

love with Helen Woodford from West Fourth St. He moved to Silver St. to be near her. They married and lived for a while above Joes Spa on West Broadway and then later to the Eaton Hotel on Emerson St. When he played for the Yankees he became “the toast of the town” and their marriage unraveled. Helen moved back to Southie with their daughter Dorothy. Although separated, they never divorced.

Helen eventually moved in with a dentist in Watertown and tragically died there in a fire caused by frayed electrical wiring. She was waked out of her home on West Fourth St. Babe Ruth attended the wake and the funeral at Mount Cavalry Cemetery in Roslindale where she was buried. So at least part of the story was true. Babe at the Cemetery. Helen's Tombstone. With Helen and Dorothy

CAR PAINT JOB

I mentioned in my last post that I learned a lot about fixing cars when I lived in Southie. After I got married I continued to service my cars and tried to get as many years out of them as I could. After all having two small children, a house mortgage and such was quite a drain on my salary. One car I may have kept a little too long. It was a Ford wagon that was beginning to show its age especially where the rust was more predominate than the original paint job.

I decided I would paint it myself. After all it had to look better than its present condition. So off to Sears I went to buy an electric air gun and paint that was specifically designed for “metallic” surfaces. I went back to my Father’s garage in Southie filled up the container with paint and let it rip. I said that it had to look better than its present condition. WRONG. Actually, from 100 feet it didn’t look too bad. Unfortunately the closer you came the worst its appearance. The end result was a finish that looked like some of the refrigerators had in its day. The ones that advertised that fingerprints would never be seen because of the undulations in the paint.

My young neighbor who pumped gas at the local gas station shook his head in disbelief when he saw what I had done. I may have saved money but even to this day I still have to endure the ridicule of my friends.

1939 OLDSMOBILE

I learned a lot about fixing cars when I lived in Southie. My friend from my old neighborhood, Bob Bumstead, (he lived on West 6th St and I lived on West 5th ) owned a 1939 Oldsmobile. We used his car to commute to MIT from Southie every day for 4 years. Although mostly reliable there were times when the car broke down. On Saturday we would trek down to Quincy to Goldie’s where cars were heaped one on top of others. We had to bring our own tools and disassemble the needed part, pay the fee for the used part then back to Southie to make the repairs. Cars were simpler then and DYI selfers could actually manage to make the repairs.

After graduation we lost touch with one another. He ended up at Cape Canaveral in Florida and worked on the Space Program and I ended up in Colorado with the Bureau of Reclamation. A couple of years ago I thought of Bob and looked him up in the Alumni Directory. We went to lunch and spent a good part of the afternoon reminiscing about our daily commute and the fun we had figuring how to keep his old rust bucket going for 4 years.

I thought it would be good to have lunch again but when I checked our Monthly Alumni Magazine I discovered he had passed. I am so glad I had a chance to see him one more time. If you have a friend you haven’t seen for a while now would be good time to touch base again.